How to Entertain Kids at Your Wedding
I am not just your luxury Staffordshire wedding photographer but I am a parent too, and this allows me to understand and appreciate the challenges of young children at weddings. I have attended a few weddings as a guest when my Son was under 5 years old and can relate to the days that we had all that time ago (yep, it was a long time ago as he is 16 this year)
Why Keeping Children Happy Makes Your Wedding Stress-Free
Picture this: you’re raising a glass under the chandeliers of your dream venue, string quartet playing softly in the background. The last thing you want is for your guests with little ones to feel stressed or distracted.
Keeping children entertained at a wedding isn’t just a thoughtful touch — it’s a way of ensuring every guest, from your best friend to your flower girl’s parents, can relax and enjoy the day with you. Happy children mean relaxed adults, and relaxed adults create the kind of effortless atmosphere that makes luxury weddings feel so memorable.
And of course, as a wedding photographer, I can tell you — it’s often those candid giggles, curious little glances, and moments of play that create some of the most heartwarming photographs of the day.
Creative Wedding Entertainment Ideas for Children
IWhen you imagine wedding entertainment ideas for children, you might picture sticky fingers and noisy distractions. But at a luxury wedding, the experience can be elevated into something seamless and elegant.
Curated Activity Packs – Think bespoke colouring books with touches of your wedding theme, puzzles, or even personalised favours that feel as special as the grown-up versions.
Chic Outdoor Games – On the grounds of a country estate or luxury hotel, classic games like croquet or giant Jenga add charm for kids and grown ups alike. Picture little ones in their wedding best, playing on manicured lawns as golden hour light streams across the scene; it’s pure storytelling magic.
Bouncy castles or inflatables –I have photographed several wedding which have had inflatables / bouncy castles as an activity too and these don’t just entertain the kids!
Professional Children’s Entertainers – From magicians to storytellers, bringing in professionals ensures children are captivated while their parents enjoy champagne and conversation.
Cosy Quiet Zones – For evening celebrations, consider a stylish lounge with beanbags, films, and soft lighting where kids can wind down while the dancefloor comes alive.
Wedding day creche – Professional creche services provided by a registered nanny who pitches up at your wedding day in a corner of your venue or some have nanny tipi’s where the little ones will be to enjoy the day in a crafting and play environment.
Family Friendly Wedding Ideas That Still Feel Luxury
It’s completely possible to create family-friendly wedding ideas that complement — rather than compromise — a luxury setting.
- Kids’ Banquet Table: Styled with elegant linens and playful touches that tie into your colour palette.
- Mocktail Station: Imagine young guests sipping sparkling elderflower in crystal glasses alongside your champagne toast.
- Miniature Favours: From personalised cookies to keepsakes, children can feel included without overshadowing the sophistication of the day.
- Luxury Childcare Teams: Dedicated nannies or babysitters dressed discreetly and professionally ensure a seamless experience for parents and peace of mind for you.
These thoughtful touches elevate the experience and show that your wedding has been designed with every guest in mind
Why These Ideas Make for Stunning Wedding Photography
For me as a luxury wedding photographer, children add a beautiful dimension to your story. The spontaneous bursts of laughter, cousins chasing bubbles on the lawn, or a flower girl twirling in the evening light — these are the moments that bring warmth and personality into the elegance of your day.
With creative off-camera flash, I can transform even the simplest game into a magical photograph, capturing those in-between moments that you’ll treasure as much as the grand portraits.
Bonus Tip: Plan Ahead for 2025 & 2026 Weddings
If you’re planning a last minute 2025 wedding, even simple touches like curated activity packs or a chic games area can make all the difference.
For those looking further ahead to 2026 or 2027, weaving family friendly elements into your timeline now will help create a calm, elegant atmosphere where every guest feels considered.
Your wedding should be filled with joy, sophistication, and unforgettable memories for every single person — big and small. If you’re planning your wedding in Staffordshire, Cheshire or the Midlands for 2025, 2026 or 2027, let’s chat about how I can capture the laughter, elegance, and candid beauty that make your story truly yours.
